There are still many parents who boast about their children’s proficiency in using the internet, which is a matter that should be taken seriously due to its significant harm to children, as it is well known. A brief overview of the subject can be provided as follows:
Firstly, the reasons for children’s attraction to the internet:
The presence of elements of excitement and challenge that push the child to persist in using these means.
The ease of use and availability of the internet at home, with parents believing it to be a safe way to entertain and educate their children.
Children imitating others, especially adults who use these means for various tasks.
The appeal of bright colors and modern technologies that capture attention.
Secondly, aspects of children’s internet addiction:
The feeling of sadness, distress, and depression when these means are absent and happiness when they are present.
The inability to find any other means as captivating and attention-grabbing, coupled with a lack of awareness of the passage of time while browsing the internet.
Turning to these means to escape from problems with others or from family problems and pressures.
Neglecting social activities, irregular eating and sleeping patterns.
Children’s preoccupation with these means, neglecting their studies, homework, or parental requests, especially from the mother, often leading to blame and punishment to continue using the internet.
Secrecy in using these means, especially in cases where parents restrict children from using them
Thirdly, as for the solutions:
There must be a role model for parents in using the internet wisely and purposefully in front of their children.
Teaching children to seek refuge in the family during times of problems and avoiding exposing them to family issues.
Educating parents themselves, even to a small extent, about the features and tools of the internet so they can monitor their children, with parents creating accounts for themselves on the same platforms their children use to keep track of them.
Restricting internet privacy for children and prohibiting them from using it alone in front of their parents so that they can monitor their activities. Parents should not believe that their children are well-mannered or immune to dangers, as this is a delusion unrelated to upbringing and manners.
Reducing dependence on the internet for culture and entertainment and adding other hobbies such as reading, sports, and discovering and nurturing children’s talents, rewarding them for positive actions.
Setting specific times for internet use and preventing it during study, meals, or before bedtime.
Constantly monitoring their friends and keeping them away from bad influences, while highlighting advice from loved celebrities and role models.
Finally, it is important not to underestimate the potential dangers of the internet, as they can be like the fuel that ignites the fire.
